This is a *very* good interview defining the term "emotional labor", with Prof. Hochschild, who introduced the term. It speaks to my feeling that the term is applied to scenarios it's not suited best for:

"It seems like this is mostly becoming a popular term in feminist conversations. But if we talk about all the unpaid labor women do in the home as “emotional labor,” we’re insinuating that any kind of labor that falls most often to a woman is “emotional.”"

theatlantic.com/family/archive

@rixx That makes me think that the groups of people who need to do the most emotional labour are people with anxiety or other mental health problems they have to mask, as well as any minority just because they are more likely to have to "brace themselves" against the emotional effects of being treated unfairy.

@Anke Sounds plausible, I guess? But it's not an automatic thing – I know people who fit those groups who still don't see household chores as emotionally draining, and it's important to acknoledge this (for reasons the interview went into much better than I could).

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@rixx I did not mean household chores, but what's mentioned as emotional labour in the interview: masking your real feelings and outwardly showing different feelings. Hochschild keeps saying that if something causes you anxiety that you need to manage, that makes it emotional labour.

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