just according to keikaku is a user on tootplanet.space. You can follow them or interact with them if you have an account anywhere in the fediverse.
sometimes it is important to recognize that a person might just not want to do something and trying to encourage them to do it is not helpful and is in fact being pushy
@InspectorCaracal nods. Sometimes people just need to let out steam.
I often find others advice useless because Im wired a bit different than most.