HELLO HERE I AM AGAIN EVERYONE ON MY #ASEXUAL FLAG BULLSHIT
I have gotten some good feedback from people and I am leaning towards using the attached image, combining the elements of my original idea with the unanimous feedback of "too dark".
Bonus from @maple are the choice of purple - # A000CE (get it???) - and the diagonal variant
I'm going to redo my icon and a special mention to @Aster (who made amazing icons using the darker one just now!) in case they want to change them!